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Posted by secretlynaughty on October 26, 2008
Earlier I visited Steve’s blog and found something that makes me more than a little cross. I did see it a few days ago but didn’t have the time or inclination to comment but today was different. What I found was this chart.
Guys when will you learn that us girls do not carry a tape measure around with us to measure you up to see if you will satisfy us. I may not be an expert, afterall I am only a woman (who has had my fair share of lovers in the last couple of years). I may not know what I am talking about when it comes to such scientific matters as what size the perfect penis is to satisfy us women. For a start before you can even think of preference does it not occur to you that us women come with different size cunts so it isn’t a case of one size fits all.
I have to say that in my days of playing the field I have had much pleasure from a variety of cocks, of all the cocks I encountered there were 2 which did not leave me satisfied. One which was way too small (not even a handful and the condom wouldn’t stay on it was so short). Now don’t go getting paranoid about what I call too short. In my experience if I can get my hand around it and see the head then its going to work for me. The second penis that was not satisfactory for me was one that was so massive there was no way that I could comfortably accommodate it within any of my holes and let me tell you that when he wanted to try anal he was left disappointed. I might enjoy the feel of a hard cock inside me but I don’t have any wish to be penetrated by anything that I think will burst my seams.
So guys if you have a cock that is big enough for me to get my small hands around but not so big that I run a mile the moment it is released then relax. I am more interested in cleanliness, a certain amount of rigidity and willingness to please. Just as important are the man’s ability to use his fingers and tongue.
by the way did you know that men with large cocks find it hard to find women willing to have sex with them. so be glad that you have an average sized cock and stop wishing for a larger cock. Unless you are the guy who had the teeny weenie one that goes by the name of ‘pleaser’ you were joking right??
Fex said
I have to agree with you here SN. I’ve had my share of cocks, and they have all worked just fine for me, with the exception of one exteme case where the cock was the size of my little finger. That was a bit too much to overcome. But everything else has been on a level playing field. What has always made the difference for me is how the man chooses to use all of the assets he has been given.
Steve said
Hey Naughty!
I’m just glad I started this discussion. I think I should point out that I don’t believe that size is everything. Nor am I hung up on it. Most of the time I use my fingers or tongue to bring Amy to orgasm. Mostly, because I enjoy tasting her and she needs clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. That being said… I would think that most women have a preference. Not that it’s the measure of the lover, but a preference of the way it feels.
secretlynaughty said
Fex I just knew that you would agree with me,the more I read you I see so many similarities in our outlook.
sn
secretlynaughty said
Steve I am glad you started the discussion too otherwise I would have had nothing to say this week lol.
sn
Dylan said
Part of the problem is the point of view from which men are always looking at their dicks. We’re looking at them from above, and they look smaller from that angle, where as women can see them from all different points of view. We see dicks and porn and then we look at our own from above and they don’t look very big. Point of fact, men: Your dick is bigger than you think it is. I remember going to a sex shop with my girlfriend because she wanted a new vibrator and saying that the one she picked out was about as big as me. She said no way, and we went in search of a toy that was more comparable to me. She pointed out one that was about three times the size I thought.
ronjazz said
Dylan makes a great point. And there is one more thing, naughty girl… I am guessing that the majority of us men have had just enough of those experiences where the size, the occasional bad day where you couldn’t get it up or keep it up, the time of day, whatever… have been reinforced by the infrequent woman to whom the size really does matter. So collectively, we then file that away and sometimes allow it to get in the way of pleasing the next woman. Men are so much more fragile than you know, or that most of us would ever admit. My own goal, first and foremost, is to please you first. It’s not a submissive act; it’s a philosophy that 1) celebrates what we are sharing and 2) supports a good approach to the rest of the evening, or whenever it is. Does that make sense?
secretlynaughty said
Dylan thank you for leaving a comment and one which you have obviously given som thought to.
It just shows that men and women see cocks from a completely different perspective.
sn
secretlynaughty said
oooooh ron I’m a naughty girl now am I lol. We can always count on you dear man to be enthusiastic about pleasuring us girls in any way or fashion suits. I do agre with you that giving pleasure leads to receiving pleasure.
I still think that those girls who think the size of a penis is important are very shallow and should be considered as such. My gues however is that they are going by what they have seen in porn movies or heard about. They probably don’t have a whole lot of experience in being pleasured properly by a real man who knows how to make his woman purr with pleasure.
It is sad to say but there are still amny men and women who don’t know anything other than straight missionary pumping in and out. Few women actually orgasm in that way so they would probably think they need to have a big cock inside them to make them cum. They are probably faking orgasms too (because they think there is something wrong with themselfs if they don’t cum).
just my opinion I might be entirely wrong on that score.
ausallblack said
My wife has always told me I am a perfect fir and I am an average size about 6 1/2 inches she reckons I hit all the right spots plus its not just about cock its about foreplay imagination and timing great discussion piece must start it up on my blog as well