This second time on adult friend finder I am more aware of what I am looking for and what I don’t want. I am more choosy than the first time. The site is different but that doesn’t matter I believe it has weeded out some of the less desirable types if not I am lucky not to have come across them. I have now been on the site for a few weeks, I had numerous emails in the first week or so, but I have noticed that most of my mail goes straight to my filtered folder as mostly my mail comes from people outside my preferences, that could mean anything from being in the wrong age range to living outside the 25 mile zone to being a smoker or even a couple. I don’t recall any from solo women!
The couples are interested because I ticked the box for bi-curious, I am definitely not bi but I am curious. I don’t think I would want an experience that was purely girl on girl but perhaps mixed in with some hetro sex would be good. I have been approached by a few couples who are not too far away so maybe I will have some fun with one or two of them but as yet we have not gone passed the exchange of emails on the site so we will have to see how that goes.
As for the men, I am in the midst of some text exchanges with one saucy man from the town I lived in before I moved here some 20 years ago. It would mean a journey of at least 1 1/2 hours for one of us if we were to meet. We have chatted on the phone once and since then he has suggested that we meet for dinner and a fuck. He accepts that I don’t ever promise anything before meeting anyone. But he has asked that I dress up ie short skirt stockings and heels (you know the kind of thing).
That is not a problem for me as I rarely go on a date without wearing a skirt and heels although depending on the time of year I might miss out the stockings. I have told him though that he would have to wait and see. He though has told me that his dominant side insists that I do as he wishes. I have not replied yet (keeping him waiting) but I shall tell him that the switch in me hasn’t yet decided whether I wish to be submissive to his desires.
Last time I was on the site I started out insisting that I only wanted to meet single men, although that soon changed when I found out that the hot sailor boy I was about to meet up with was married. (we met up for some very hot and I mean hot sex a couple of times before he was almost caught out and had to behave himself). After that I met several married men but after a while I decided that I only wanted to meet single men as the risks of meeting married men was too high. This time though I decided that I quite like the thrill of meeting married men, it is a much greater adrenalin rush of doing something elicit than meeting a single man where there is no risk.
For this reason I have met one married man. He was very pleasant in manner and very smart in both his appearance and his mental abilities. But we both agreed after meeting that it just wasn’t going to work as he could only ever meet up in the day time which I can’t do due to my work. Because he doesn’t live or work near where I live or work it would be a logistical nightmare. So there are no married men in my little black book at the moment but that doesn’t mean that won’t change.
At the moment I am seeing two very different men but as I am not selfish and I do like to share I am still keeping my options open. So if anyone else catches my attention who knows where it will lead. I am also hoping that a certain man from my past adventures see here can find the time and place for us to get to grips with each other as although it has been two years since we were last together we are both still very much in lust.
