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How far would you go

Posted by secretlynaughty on June 16, 2010

A comment by Keatsjohnkeats on this post got me thinking about how far would you go for sex.

I was reminded about a guy I was chatting to not long after my sexual reawakening back in 2006.  He lived approxiately 200 miles away. We talked about meeting half way in little known place called swindon but after checking to see where we could meet that we could both find seeing that neither of us had ever been there we eventually agreed to meet at a motorway services instead. It took me an hour and a half to drive there after work. The next day when he apologised but  realised that it was just too far to travel  regularly I was quite relived. The sex was not special enough to warrant a 200 mile round trip each time.

Later that year I was chatting online to a man who spent most of the year abroad working either as a diving instructor in the summer or a ski instructor in the winter. We talked about meeting but I never thought it would happen, until one sat morning we were chatting on the phone. Neither of us had any plans for the rest of the day so he drove for 2.5 hours to meet me for dinner. See this post here.

It was in the November of that year I was chatting to Scottie. He decided within days that he needed to see me, it was less than a week after our first messages that he drove for over 3 hours to  his hotel where I was to meet him for dinner. He would have to leave at 5am to drive 3 hours to his breakfast meeting at Ipswich. We had a few drinks in his room while we decided where to go (he had lived in the city for a while 10 years earlier).  We stayed in his room drinking, kissing, licking, sucking and of course fucking until 2am when he wanted to go and see his former home. Returning to the hotel at 3am. If it wasn’t enough that he had a 6 hour round trip driving to see me he had first flown over from Germany (where he had been living and working for six months). Making it a 1400 mile round trip to spend 6.5 hours with me.

Not so long ago I asked Karl ‘what is the furthest you have gone for sex?’  His answer was a nearby city, so at most he has gone 20 miles. Although I did that 200 mile round trip once I had regularly driven to see Don who lives 23 miles away, Alex who lives 30 miles away and  more recently Fred who is nearer 40 miles away. Oh and there were the times I met Gareth at various locations the furthest being this one about 70 miles each way.

so how far would you go and has it been worth it?

6 Responses to “How far would you go”

  1. Great question SN. Let me predicate my answer with the clarification that I didn’t need to go so far for a fuck. I had that locally. My longer trips were all for women with whom I shared a very strong emotional connection.

    The farthest I’ve travelled for one woman = more than 5000 miles (several times). With her, time and space were/are completely irrelevant, and if I could get away with it I would do it again tomorrow.

    The farthest I’ve travelled in anticipation of an unbelievably great sexual experience = 1000 miles (I wasn’t disappointed, but that’s an entirely different story involving nearly getting arrested with two leather-clad beauties, one on each arm)

    The farthest I’ve travelled to fuck someone new, where I’d no idea whether or not it would be good = 150 miles (It’s been worth it sometimes and not others, but I’d still give it a go just to find out).

  2. Mike said

    The furthest I have gone for sex is about 90 miles. And based upon the experience (one of my best), I would have gone 900 miles!

    I remember the long trip acting as foreplay in many ways…..just driving along with nothing to do but fantasize about what was to come. By the time I got there I was so worked up, that it added a little extra intensity to the experience.

  3. Riff Dog said

    Normally, my limit would be an hour, but I wouldn’t even go that far unless it was someone special. That’s driving. (I would never fly for sex. Too many things could go wrong.)

    There is one time, though, that I drove two hours (each way.) It was indeed for someone very special, and yes, it was definitely worth it.

  4. Luton to Copenhagen, via Paris. Around 800 miles. After our first year at uni, H went back home for the summer and I saved up to go and visit her.

    She had the first of many orgasms that night on the back seat of the car we were travelling in while being driven back to her friends’ house to stay the night.

    Yes, it was worth it.

  5. Kevin said

    When I was at uni, I would regularly travel three hours or more (sometimes hitch-hiking, sometimes by train) to meet up with the love of my life, and it was always worth it, and not just for the sex. My first true adulterous experience entailed my driving 150 miles to a motorway services (where I’d booked a room). I had no idea if it would be worth it, but fortunately it was. I don’t think I would travel that far these days, unless it was to meet someone really special whom I already knew.

  6. secretlynaughty said

    Ah so my favourite men would all be happy to travel great distance for someone special.

    Maybe one day I shall find one who will live up to the high standard that you set ;x

    sn xx

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