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Beyond vanilla

Posted by secretlynaughty on December 19, 2010

The subject has arisen again.

BDSM, am I into it and if so in which role?

Am I Vanilla or not?

I suspect that anyone who is vanilla would if they knew what I have done in recent years,  say that I am not vanilla (that is if they even knew what being vanilla meant).

I suspect that anyone heavily into BDSM would say that I am little more than vanilla.

I was vanilla until a few years ago when I joined the world of sex bloggers. From the moment I began reading other sex blogs and discussing various aspects of sex with other sex bloggers my interest in sex beyond vanilla began to grow. Some of my favourite blogs from those early days have since ceased to be. Two of my favourite bloggers of that time were the very educational and sexy Cherrie and the delightfully adventurous La Fille. They are both missed (at least by me).

During this time I discovered in myself a need to try out a variety of things I had previously felt were no go areas for me.

There was the time a good friend (he was the one who introduced me to sex blogs in the first place) agreed to give me my first experience of being spanked/caned. I was astounded by my ability to cope with pain as have always believed myself to be a total wimp where pain is concerned. Since then sadly I have not experienced any further caning however I have been spanked (not seriously but in fun). Dave is quite happy to spank me and has also been the only man who has actually tied me up to a degree although others have said they would. Probably the most serious spanking I have had apart from that very first time was at the swingers party Dave took me to where my favourite room was the dungeon.

Who would have ever thought someone as shy and selfconscience as I would ever put on a show for doggers.

I have had many conversations with a variety of men about being in a Dom/sub relationship. This is something I am curious about and reading about it turns me on big time. But although quite a few men have shown an interest in the concept I have not found any who would do this with me properly. Some are merely interested in making a woman do whatever they want without caring about doing ao with care and love. I have discussed it with Dave as he seems to be the only one in my life who is capable of giving me the kind of sex I crave, but he says he could never be dominant.

I have had numerous conversations (mainly in the past) about whether I am submissive. I believe that I do have a tendency to allow my partner to lead me in sex. But there are times when I feel a need to be the one in control. There fore I believe that I am for the most part submissive but could never be totally controlled.

Ages ago I came across a BDSM quiz which I took and posted the results here. I think it would be interestin now to take the test again if it still exists just to see if the results come out the same as before.

BDSM Quiz

my result first time:

You Scored as Switch
(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area which can be useful for exploring you sexuality with your partner.

Switch
96%
Experimental
89%
Submissive
86%
Bondage
82%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
75%
Masochist
71%
Dominant
61%
Sadist
54%
Degradation Lover
54%
Vanilla
21%

my result this time is :

You Scored as Switch

(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.))) You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area which can be useful for exploring you sexuality with your partner.

Switch
100%
Experimental
93%
Bondage
93%
Submissive
86%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
86%
Sadist
86%
Masochist
82%
Dominant
71%
Degradation Lover
46%
Vanilla
18%

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suprise

Posted by secretlynaughty on September 3, 2010

“Have been asked by ‘sherry’ if you/us will meet her fb tonight and allow him  to play with you as a suprise birthday treat. Meet 10pm in car park.”

That was the suprise text I received from Dave whilst at work. I didn’t reply until I could get home and check out who this was. I found a profile of a local single female.

Dave text me again later.

hi what would you like to do tonight? If you want to text Sherry her number is ************* she is a midwife.

After thinking about this I decided against it.

hi this is sn I gather that you want to give your fb a b’day suprise. Unfortunately I am really tired tonight. Really sorry.

now Im gutted u ok hun x

yeah just get more tired as week goes by. I did give this serious thought though. Maybe another time.

cant u just watch him cum x

no sorry

pretty please x

By this time I was feeling suspicious. Dave was now online

what was the plan?

She wants us to meet her fuck buddy, its his birthday today she says. She wants you to suck him or let him cum over you. I told her it’s up to you.

I text her to say I’m too  tired which I am.

ok. by the way she saw us up on the hill that time.

She is trying to put pressure on me. I’m not sure this is a woman……….I think this is a single guy.

I think it might be too but her profile looks ok

how would she/he know they saw us?

she told me my licence plate number

ouch

must have a good memory

that’s not good that someone is keeping a record……… do you remember seeing any women?

was too busy………….there were other cars there.

how did the conversation get around to that and how did they make connection between a couple dogging in april an a couple on fab in sept?

She asked if I ever went dogging, I said I sometimes went on the hill, she said she did too. She recognised make of car.

I don’t like the sound of this………….I was worried before I said I was too tired but now it feels freaky.

yeah I thought so too

Wish I hadn’t text from my private phone now.

you should have let me text , never mind

this  ‘sherry’ is now asking if tomorrow is better……………have not replied

hmmm I did say that we were already busy……..I am IM’ing her but she/he’s not talking to me……….don’t reply

I have not heard anything more but I do think this was a single guy trying his luck. It is very un-nerving to think that they have kept a note of Dave’s reg number months later.

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I could always rely on Nigel

Posted by secretlynaughty on June 9, 2010

After being left high and dry last night I knew there was one person who knew how to enjoy a good sexy exchange. I loved teasing him with my sexy text messages while he worked or leaving hot emails for him to find when he got home. Nigel’s emails and text messages were as hot as he is. Unfortunately he moved away a couple of years ago and our comunications are few and far between.

But after being left frustrated by Karl I decided to see if I could start something going. My email was quite short and simple

hi sexy, been thinking about you recently, how are you?

Hi sn, good to hear from you, has been way too long 😦  I’m good thanks. How is the love life? Anybody new in your life, or is it just red hot sex from now on 😉 A damn shame we are so far apart, because if we were closer, you know damn well we would still be doing what we do best….. raw passion and long sessions of deep penetration of every hole of that sexy body 🙂 xx

Its good to know he still remembers our times together the same way I do. I was really pleased to get his reply quite quickly although I have to admilt that falling asleep so soon after sending the original email I had forgotten about it until I found his message in my inbox. I quickly fired off a response giving him a vague outline of my current situation.

Imagine my delight on finding this further email from Nigel……….such a difference to Karl

Bloody hell sn you have been a busy bee lol. Good for you though, at least you are still enjoying yourself and doing what you want to do! It has been an age since we last met, but unfortunately there is nothing we can do about that. Distance is a terrible thing!

We did have some bloody horny sessions together didnt we? I knew what you liked and could feel the way your body responded, plus you could always take what i had to give you, and loved it at the same time. Its always more enjoyable when you are with somebody who gets off on the same things. I love to please, and i found you to be very responsive to me, the massive wet patch was always a dead giveaway 😉  The very first time we got together at your place, i can still remember the size of the wet patch we left on your sofa and on the floor, bloody horny!

Sounds like you are having fun, just a shame the bloke who likes the bondage isnt so hot on the penetration side. We both know how you like a good hard shaft pounding away inside you, a bloody waste not to hear you moaning whilst being taken hard and deep!

You saucy minx you….dogging! Was it just the thrill of being watched, or did you let others join in? I’ve never been dogging, i always prefered to be greedy and have you all to myself lol. You obviously need to find another love to add to the list sexy lady. One who can keep it up and who wants to be inside you all the time! One who can work some magic deep inside that sexy ass, and deliver the goods when needed! Oh i do remember how lovely and tight that ass of yours was. And i do remember how you used to moan as i slammed into it over and over, balls deep, until i filled it with my hot cum! Fuck we had some amazing sessions!

I hope you get it all sorted out sn, its a shocking waste to think of you going without good sex 😉 xx

I am going to have to find myself another Nigel ………………anyone know of a Nigel going spare?

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Failed Fellatio

Posted by secretlynaughty on April 16, 2010

I don’t know if this is just him or is this a common phenomenon? He tells me that he can’t remember the last time he was sucked off to completion. Most of the time when we are together he tells me that its all about me not him and not to worry about getting him off………I’m not worried!

The first time we were together he eventually relented and allowed me to suck him after he had been wanking for a while. I began sucking him and swallowed a small amount of his cum, but my mouth slipped off his cock. Although I kept my face close I was unable to get back onto his cock for fear of being punched in the face he was wanking so hard. On a few other occasions he allowed me to suck his cock which I enjoyed but he pulled me off before he came. He always tells me not to worry about him. I was beginning to worry that he had erection problems as he is very rarely hard while we are playing and when he is it only lasts a few minutes. While we were at the party though he was hard much more so I started thinking he had taken something, but he wasn’t hard continually so I have dismissed that idea. Maybe I am wrong but I thought drugs like Viagra and the blue pills created a long lasting erection.

I have witnessed him wanking hard a few times now but he has only cum twice. When we were at the party he had a wank from one of the other women there, he said it wasn’t very good and she used her hand too much. Since then he has been dogging on his own and once received a blow job, again he said it wasn’t very good.

Now I am quite proud of my fellatio techniques and only ever had one complaint (that I didn’t use my hand enough). True  I don’t always suck to completion but I put that down to the man holding back rather than my technique. Every man without exception (including the one who complained) has always complimented me on my wonderful mouth and hands. Sometimes there are occasions when the man wanks until hes about to cum then lets me take over with mu mouth. But usually the man I am sucking is just laying back enjoying the sensations my tongue give him. I am not what I call a bobber, I like to take my time licking from tip to base, swirling my tongue around his shaft, licking and sometimes sucking his balls (some men find that too intense). I might nibble on his shaft as I make my way along hs length. I love to take the head of his penis into my mouth sucking and licking. I can spend a good half an hour pleasuring us both on his cock. But there is one thing all these men I have sucked, both to completion and not, they lie prone letting me do whatever I want to them. They might be be fingering me or licking me out in a 69 but they enjoy what I do to them.

Dave is different. Dave wanks like mad, even while he is laying prone on the bed, but not only is he wanking but pumping his hips up to my mouth. It is impossible to do anything other than keep my mouth in one place and let him pump my mouth. Again I am in danger of being hit in the face either that or my teeth will accidentally take a bite out of him.  Next time I shall have to tell him to keep still and let me do what I do best other wise I shall just give up on giving him a blowjob again.

What I want to know is, are there lots of Daves out there? Is this the only way they can cum or can they be coaxed into letting me do my best without danger of a black eye.

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doing it under my terms

Posted by secretlynaughty on April 15, 2010

It was early evening, we had talked about it a couple of times and now was the time to see if I would go through with it.

We were sittingin his car kissing, we do that a lot (he says I am a good kisser). It was totally my decision, we could go into the pub for a drink or we could drive away for some sexy fun. Or we could go to his house and make love on his bed.

I chose to be naughty, I had already asked him to make sure he brought a towel with him. When we had been talking about it in the preceeding days I had found myself getting turned on. I think being watched at the party had changed things for me. I had liked being watched at the party. I was getting turned on now by the idea of being watched provided it was my decision.

We parked up in the same car park as before, but this time as it had only just turned dark there were only two other cars there. We both took off our jackets and put our seats back as far as they would go to give ourselves as much room as possible. Without an audience I felt quite comfortable kissing and playing with Dave. It didn’t take him long to remove my knickers from under my loose black dress.  Soon another car pulled up beside us but I have no idea where the driver went to. He had left his vehicle but didn’t appear to be anywhere near us. Passions heating up inside the car my skirt was pushed up above my waist, my bra undone and pulled away from my breasts allowing Dave easy assess to which ever part of my body he chose to play with.

I was gettingvery aroused now and took hold of his cock, playing with it between my fingers as we continued to kiss. I saw our neighbour return to his car but soon he was standing watching us from behind my shoulder. I think my bum was revealed at this point but can’t remember.

Pushing me back into my seat Dave leaned across playing with my breast and my pussy simultaneously, while his tongue danced with mine. Knowing that we had an audience now was making me wetter, with Dave’s fingers working my pussy I was soon moaning in ecstasy. By this time Dave had lowered my window a few inches to let in some cool air. Knowing this only made me moan louder  so that I would be heard from outside. I was well into my stride now but still rejected Dave’s suggestion of  lowering the window and offer the guy a blow job.  I was enjoying this but at my pace.

I was already thinking about it so when Dave suggested that I should kneel on my seat and suck him off I was there before he could finish saying it. Burying my head in his lap sucking and licking greedily on his cock I was more than happy. Having my bum in the air facing the window with my skirt pushed onto my back so my rear end was totally exposed made me excited. With Dave playing with my pussy and my arse we now had an audience of three but the first man was bending down for a closer look while he wanked (so I am told).

Dave was whispering to me what was going on, but although I was enjoying giving our audience something to a enjoy I was more concerned with what I was doing. I love to suck cock and was thoroughly enjoying this one. I was also acutely aware of what Dave was doing to my arse but more particularly to my pussy. The sensations he was creating, plus the cock in my mouth I knew I was getting close to orgasm.I wanted to tell him to spank my bum but didn’t want to lose his fingers from my pulsing cunt so kept quiet. I knew I was getting wet but when I finally collapsed I discovered that the towel beneath me was not as wet as I expected. Dave says thats because when I came it hit the window.

We kissed some more before I decided that enough was enough. We adjusted our clothes and seats before returning to where my car was parked. Chatting and kissing again I jokingly put my stiletto heeled foot up on the dashboard. This brought the guy from the car next to us rushing around to see what he could see. But this time I was not going to be putting on a show. I enjoyed my bit of exhibitionism but I enjoyed it because it was on my terms, when where and how much.

I have come to the conclusion that yes I enjoyed my bit of dogging (how many middle aged women can say that they chose to go dogging on their birthday). But it is not going to be a regular occurrence. I will do it when I want to, but it will be an irregular treat not something that becomes expected or the norm. If I do it often then it will become sordid and more will be expected of me. There might come a time when I am wiling to be touched by the men watching, there might be a time when I am willing to either wank or give them blow jobs, but I am not there yet. If I ever get to that then it will be a slow build up.

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change of plans

Posted by secretlynaughty on April 9, 2010

Instead of our planned night in bed with my toys we met for a drink at one of my favourite pubs.

When I arrived at the pub he was stood beside his car enjoying the spectacle of a couple kissing in the next car.  We walked hand in hand into the bar where we enjoyed our drinks punctuated with lots of kisses. After our refreshment we returned to his car where we kissed some more then with my nervous agreement he drove to another car park not far away. At the top end of the carpark there were quite a few cars. Silently he slid his car between two others.

We both removed our jackets on this warm evening. Our kissing resumed with considerable passion. I knew that we were visible to others around us. Keeping my eyes closed I was kissing Dave passionately, soon my bra was off and my top pulled up over one shoulder exposing my left breast. I allowed Dave to play with my nipple while we kissed. I knew the guy from the car next to us was walking around but I was ok as I couldn’t see him looking at us. I guessed but didn’t know for sure that there were others watching us. I kind of found the idea a turn on but only if I didnt see anyone looking.

When I felt that I had had enough I adjusted my clothing and we returned to where my car was parked. We chatted for a while as we continued kissing. A car pulled up beside us, it was the same man who had been watching us earlier. But I was not inclined to give him anything else to see. I bade Dave good night and climbed out of his car walking the few steps to my own car.

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Among Dogs

Posted by secretlynaughty on September 30, 2009

Unfortunately the beacon turned out to be more a case of false hope. It seems that this saviour was nothing more than a weasel in sheep’s clothing. Ok so I have mixed metaphors but I could hardly call him a wolf in sheep’s clothing. That would have given a false impression of this spineless pathetic excuse of a man.

I feel quite relieved to have escaped that situation.

But within days I met a genuine guy (Flame) who lit up my face with smiles. We didn’t meet through the internet but through real life. This was not a date as such. Our paths crossed occasionally through work, he had wanted to meet me for sometime and would be in the area next day so we met for lunch. He walked me back to my car after lunch and to my suprise kissed me. I hadn’t expected it , I was taken off guard, eventually I managed to tear myself away. returning to the office one of the girls quizzed me about the big grin on my face. It was difficult to concentrate for the rest of the day.

Next day he had to phone me at work, we arranged a brief meeting on Friday afternoon to solve a slight problem that had occurred. Later in the day he text me that he was slightly worse for wear, he was at a prestigious sporting event that he had paid a lot of money to attend and was enjoying the bar.

Not long after I arrived home form the office he phoned asking if he could see me that evening. I was confused as he had already told me that the event would go on quite late into the evening. But he apparently couldn’t get me out of his mind and wanted to see me so he was getting a taxi home now.

How I managed to have a bath, iron my jeans, feed my family and get there in under an hour I don’t know, I arrived at the agreed place exactly on time (I was impressed). He had been drinking so I drove, we ended up finding a pub near to where I work. From the moment he got into my car he kissed me and was stroking my arm and leg while I drove. Once seated in the pub garden we kissed a lot, but although I wanted to be closer to him I delayed, taking my time over my drink, asking him questions about himself. But neither of us could resist for long.

We decided to find a quiet place where we could kiss and cuddle in private. He gave me directions as we drove, ending up in what we thought would be a quiet waterside carpark. It was dark by now but the moon was very bright, there were other cars there before us but I thought they were night fishermen or else courting couples. I parked in the middle of the carpark under a tree away from the other cars.

We climbed into the back of my car and began kissing in earnest. He soon had my black top raised so that he could get to my breasts. I couldn’t help laughing at his fumbled attempts to release me from my bra, twisting my arm behind me I did it for him. (I can be obliging like that now and again).

We were engrossed in our kissing, now and again breaking off for him to pay homage to my ‘fantastic tits’. It was at one such moment that I noticed the man circling around my car. He was far enough away that he wouldn’t have seen much. But in the bright moonlight I could see him quite clearly looking towards my car. Keeping a watch on him to make sure he didn’t come any closer we continued kissing. Other cars came and went, some parked up along the northern edge of the car park would flash their headlights from time to time.

I became very concious of the contrast of my pale skin with my black top so that every time I was exposed by flame,I was sure the man could see. He had moved back to his own car now a short distance behind my back. Another car joined him and I noticed the two men chatting beside their vehicles.

Flame was becoming agitated at their presence, I told him to ignore them. By now I had realised that we were among doggers, but provided they kept their distance I was ok. Flame was astounded that doggers actually exist, he thought it was just a few perverts, didn’t realise how common it actually is especially so close to home.

We had been indulging in another passinate kiss when I sat up after breaking for breath to see a face peering in through the window just inches behind my head.  My  reflex was to smack the window with the back of my hand just where the face was. It was funny to see him scuttle off back to his car. Both men retreating to the safety of their cars, they talked for a while before one drove off leaving his mate behind. Now I was getting a bit jittery, although we continued our kissing the moment had been lost.

Flame would have liked me to give him a blow job but I had become so unsettled by now that I just couldn’t. Besides I had promised myself that there would be no real sex. If we were going to have sex it would be done properly not in the back of a car in a public place. I did however give in to his gentle persuasion to wank him off. I am not sure if I did this as compensation for not giving him head or if it was just pride in my ability, I wanted to give him an idea of what he could have in a different situation. Taking his semi hard cock in my hand I wanked him off whilst trying not to let it be obvious to those looking, just what was going on. I wanked him slowly at first before making my movements harder and faster. It wasn’t long before he came it was then that we realised there was nothing to clean him off with.

I could have cleaned him up with my tongue but I had already made up my mind that was not going to happen so I didn’t offer instead I found a tissue in my bag, he had to make do with that. He sorted his jeans out and we both got back into the front seats and we set off for the city where I dropped him off and took myself home.

 

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Rain

Posted by secretlynaughty on April 28, 2009

I’m sat in the traffic watching the rain gusting in the the glow from the street lights. I wonder if it will be raining in the morning? I begin to fidget in my seat, the more I think about it the more I fidget with excitement. I have never done anything like this before he says he hasn’t either. A week to ten days ago if anyone said I would be doing this I would have said no way……that’s not my thing.

We are meeting at the same place as the last time, then hes taking me off to the place we have chosen for my punishment. We are both very excited. I am bringing the silk scarf to bind my hands  I didn’t tell him that the place we have chosen is popular with dog walkers but maybe the rain will keep them away. I’m not sure if I want us to be found or not but the very idea adds to the excitement. I can hardly contain myself. Will I be able to keep quiet throughout my ordeal, I wonder if I shall be able to stop myself from giggling. He doesn’t know that I giggle when I am nervous but then again I giggle a lot anyway. If I giggle I am sure that will mean I shall have to be punished again. Oh sweet pleasure I cannot wait…..yet I must, I have another 16 hours until our appointed meeting time.

I have given much thought to my attire for my master’s pleasure I think it will have to be short skirt stockings and high heeled ankle boots teamed with a white lacy brassiere topped by a loose white low cut sleeveless blouse. I remember that white becomes transparent when wet, this only adds to my pleasure at the thought of his reaction. Oh I do hope it will still be raining, does that make me a masochist I wonder?

Next morning the rain was heavy, as I drove along country lanes towards our rendezvous, rivers of rainwater rushing along. I was elated to get my wish for rain. But by the time we met the rain had subsided, before we arrived in the forest the rain had stopped completely. The car park was already heaving with walkers and their dogs as they bunched up in groups chatting. We abandoned our search for a suitable spot among the trees. Our planned adventure would have to wait for another time, a time when we could be better prepared, a better spot found.

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Car Parks

Posted by secretlynaughty on March 14, 2009

It has been pointed out to me that I seem to have a thing for car parks.

Perhaps this is because the person who pointed it out to me knows that over the last couple of years I have driven 2 to meet a man who lived 180 miles away. We decided to meet half wayish. When I arrived at the alloted service station he climbed into my car, we moved to a part of the car park furthes from the majority of other cars and began chatting. It wasn’t long before this turned into kissing and heavy petting, culminating in me climbing onto him so we could attempt to fuck on the passenger seat of my car. By the time I arrived home at 2am (with work the following day) I was exhausted from the 200 mile round trip.

It is also possible that this person knows about the time a man I had been chatting to drove for 2 1/2 hrs to meet me for dinner. After we had enjoyed our meal and (wow he was very handsome) we sat chatting in his car for a few minutes before he climbed onto me and shagged me in the only way you can in a small space.

Perhaps he knows about the time I had met a new FB at the same pub then gone with him to his camper van and proceeded to have oral sex with him in his van (curtains shut whilst others stood around outside chatting beside their cars with the lights directed on our van).

He does know about the married man I met oh yes in the same car park again!! last year on New Years eve. The same married man who after a year of silence has started chatting again and telling me he has had no sex in the last year. 

Maybe he knows about the time my lover and I started off in that same car park before driving through my town to a local beach resort to park in another car park away from all other vehicles, where we climbed into the back seat for some goodbye canoodling (he had found out that day he was being posted abroad in 3 days time ~ our affair was in its 5th week). We hadn’t been in eachother’s arms and although our clothes were in disarray we hadn’t got upto much when we were interupted by two cars parking on either side of us lights full on with the young male occupants peering in at us.  We got back into the front and drove off in search of a more private space, followed by one of the cars. We drove along the coast to another car park, one that was busy with couples out walking along the beach or people with dogs. We parked among the empty cars and watched the other car drive off. It was too crowded for us so we drove back out through my town and into the countryside until we ended up in our favourite forest carpark with just the wild life for company. Now we could get down to the serious business of saying goodbye.

He probably doesn’t know about my second date with Don way back at the start of my first new liason in 20 years. He had travelled by train to visit me and was staying in a bed and breakfast in a village the other side of town. we had been for a drink and  upon our return to my car he became amorous which I didn’t feel was a good idea in a busy town car park (parked under a street light) with the town police station looming along one side of the car park. So we drove out to the town’s football stadium and settled in a small side car park for some canoodling. It was not very comfortable with the handbrake digging into my ribs. He sucked and chewed so hard on my nipples that were not used to any attention that I bled. My nipples were sore for several days.

He may not know about the time another man had visited by train, after a few drinks we returned to my car and drove to another car park just a short walk away from the town centre mostly used by people working in town during the day. He didn’t take long to get my jeans around my knees as he finger fucked me, soaking the seat. But time was short for us that sunday evening as the last train back to his city was about 11pm.

However I believe what he really wants to know is what happened in the car park this last Monday and why am I now meeting this same guy again in two days time to spend a night with him in his former home whilst he is house sitting for his ex wife!!

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OMG how did that happen

Posted by secretlynaughty on March 8, 2009

As I was having fun with AFF I was considering going for a drive to my favourite view. Thinking about the view I started to let my mind wander to a previous visit to a certain car park on New Years Eve 2007.  He was a shy innocent married man. We had struck up an online friendship (not through a sex or even a dating site). After a while we met for a coffee after work on the last day before xmas. We met again for a chat at my favourite view point on Xmas Eve. Then again on New Year’s Eve only on that occasion the windows got a bit steamed up as I gave him head in the front of my car. We both got rather turned on and I became very wet much to his delight.

He did his best to bring me off with his fingures but the poor man obviously was either very nervous about playing with a woman other than his wife or he really didn’t have much clue how to play a woman. But he was blown away with the blow job I gave him.

It was a nice encounter but I began to feel guilty about leading an innocent man astray. I gradually stoped chatting to him. I don’t think we have been in contact since January 2008.

I guess it was about half an hour after I was thinking about that day on the hill that I got a text from an unknown number.  

Hi SN, I’ve lost all your contact details from my pc. Just found your mobile number. How are you? well I hope. Cliff

Now I could think of two Cliff’s it could be (both bloggers that I have not spoken to for months). I didn’t want to ask which one it was.

Hi how are you?

I’m good thanks

How is life and love?

Lol. Same as ever. What about you?

Life is fine

How is your love life?

Almost non existing

then he asked about chatting on IM so I gave him the new one I had just set up for the guys on AFF I had just been chatting to. As soon as I saw his email address I knew who it was. It wasn’t either of the two bloggers I had thought it was. It had just not occurred to me that it could be the innocent married man.

Poor fellow has not been having any luck with his wife. He hasn’t been brave enough to chat let alone see any other women. He was asking me if I remember the last time we met, he remembers how wet I was. Thinking about it made him feel horney. I have a feeling he will ask to see me again soon…………….Oh and I have a date for tomorrow night from a guy on AFF

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