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The thing about married men

Posted by secretlynaughty on June 12, 2010

I have been thinking about the different lovers or if you prefer friends with benefits that I have and have had over the last few years. Every now and then I go all righteous and declare that it will only be single men for me from then on. But it never takes very long before a married man worms his way into my arms. So what is it about married men?

There are lots of reasons for staying away from them and I don’t just mean that they belong to someone else. Part of me thinks it dreadful that any woman especially this woman would sleep with a married man. After all he is married to someone else, someone who would in all probability be very hurt if they knew what their husband was doing. I wouldn’t want my partner/husband to be having sex with anyone but me so why should I be doing it to them. (that’s the angel on my left shoulder’s view).

On the other hand if a man is married and wants to stay married because they love/adore their wife but they still want to have sex with me that gives me a sense of power. What is more if that man has never strayed before but now that they have met me they want me even though they are risking their marriage………..that is one very powerful aphrodisiac would you not agree.

But there are other reasons for staying away from married men. When you are together you cannot wear perfume or any other scent. …….I do like my perfume especially my bottle of prada…..I love the scent of vanilla too but even that can be too much of a giveaway.

I love to send and receive text messages but with some married men I can only indulge in this when I know it is safe (like Nigel) although with others like Karl I can and do text him at any time. What is nicer when you are apart than an unexpected phone call from your lover. A good morning call or a goodnight wish, maybe if you are both so inclined some phone sex. I have enjoyed a few sessions over time  including just calling up my lover so that he can hear me cum. Karl can phone me which he does often while he is out and about but I can’t ever phone him unless I know in advance that he is out. I have never phoned Dave and only ever text him in reply to his text which is usually only when we are about to meet up.

I think I would be better off finding myself a suitable single man if I am going to find the relationship that works for me………the only trouble is my resistence to married men is low.

With married men we can only spend time together when it fits in with their family life. Time that is stolen, time when they are supposed to be somewhere else. The best we can do is a few hours here and there. We cannot have nights or weekends together. Going away together is not an easy option. (Karl says he wants to take me away but I can’t see it happening.)

Having married lovers means that I can keep a clear conscience whilst seeing more than one, which in turn means that I can find different lovers who have different qualities. It is so difficult to find a lover who can give a woman all that she desires/needs.  In the early days of my sexual adventures (post divorce) I had the gentle Colin and the passionate Nigel. Now I have Karl and Dave who could not be more different. Having multiple married lovers helps me not to fall too deeply for any of them. For our relationship (even if it is no strings) to work we have to like each other and that means having some feelings for each other, caring. But it would be dangerous to care too much. Having more than one means I spread my feelings between them instead of devoting all my emotions to just one.

With single men I am more likely to devote myself to just the one which is when I get hurt like I did with Fred first time around. (who incidentally I have not seen since January and only had one online conversation (end of april) so I think that has run its course.

Is there anyone you would like to read more about?

Adam ~ attached ~ history

Sebastian ~ attached ~ history but still around

Don ~ single ~ history

Colin ~ married ~ history

Nigel ~ married ~ history

Fred ~ single ~ history and semi current

Karl ~ married ~ current

Dave ~ married ~ current

Stuart ~married ~ history

Rupert ~ married ~ history

Chief ~ single ~ history

Cutter ~ married ~ history

Sweetheart ~ single ~ history

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Naughty man returns

Posted by secretlynaughty on January 9, 2009

The naughty man aka virtual fling rang the office but it wasn’t me who answered his call.

Later as I was driving my phone told me I had a text message

Hiya sexy  x

An hour later I replied

Mwah  did you miss me? x

No don’t be silly did you miss me x

As if!! For some reason Mary thinks you have a nice voice x

I think both of you sound sexy I had a x rated dream about you x

both of us? x

No it was me and You but I’d do you both x

I shot over your panties last night x

As long as they don’t need washing

God I was horny today thats why I phoned x

Were you disappointed or did Mary satisfy you?

I was disappointed x

This was followed by a conversation full of inuendo on IM, which in turn was followed by

I’m in bed now, I’m imagining your pussy taste and I’m inside you.

Late this afternoon we had 3 telephone conversations the third was purely non work from him.

Are you alone ?

No

So you can’t say much?

not much

good I can say whatever I like then and you can’t do much about it.

true

were you wet last night on the computer?

yes

was it chatting to me?

yes

there was several moments of smutt before he had to cut the call short to see to a customer. I wander if I shall hear from him tomorrow

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A virtual love affair

Posted by secretlynaughty on October 2, 2008

I have not posted on here for a couple of days mainly because I have been busy having a virtual fling.  As I sit at my desk during the day he whispers naughty thoughts down the phone to me. As I drive he tells me what he wants to do to me. When I am online he invades my screen with emails, he tells me what he is going to do to me. He sends me photos to show me how I make him feel. He finds excuses to phone me at work just to hear my voice. He sends me explicit photographs of himself at random times just to get me flustered.

He is a very naughty man but I am loving every text, every email, each IM conversation but most especially every telephone call. He asks me if I am wet and even if I wasn’t until he asked suddenly I am. He shuts himself away in his office away from his staff so they won’t notice his guilty secret. He can’t stop thinking about me.

He wants to grab my naked body and press my hot flesh against the cold ceramic tiles of his kitchen floor, squirt cream on my nipples and smooth shaved pussy, adding to the cream, dribbles of cold champagne and crushed strawberry juice, blending it all in with my own juices as he licks and kisses every inch of my body. He wants to finger fuck me, first one then two, three fingers as I suck and lick his thick 7″ hard cock. Before he turns me over to enter me from behind as he pumps into me slowly at first before increasing speed (he is like train….keeps going all night).

He wants to handcuff me to the bed so he can tease my body until I lose control and just enjoy the moment ahem hour or two or three as he uses my vibrators to stimulate me in  addition to his fingers, tongue and of course that magnifcent cock. He wants to hear my giggles turn to screams of pleasure. He wants me to wake from my slumber, by the tickle of his tongue on my inner thighs.

What could be sexier than knowing that a handsome, fit younger man wants my body so much that he can’t concentrate on anything else.

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