Limitations E – F

Here are my comments on the list I posted here a couple of weeks ago. I started with A – B continued with C – D and now  continue with E – F some of these I have commented on already.

Electricity …………… see previous
Enemas (for cleansing) ………… I would if I could
Enemas ( retention/punishment) …………. see previous
Enforced chastity …………….see previous
Erotic Dance (for audience) …………not sure I could do this for an audience but maybe after a few drinks for a small audience of one
Examinations (physical) ………… had plenty of these for medical reasons can’t decide how I would feel about this in a sexual setting
Exercise (forced/required) ………..maybe I need this
Exhibitionism (friends) .…………..possibly
Exhibitionism (strangers) ………….. maybe depending on situation
Eye contact restrictions …………….would find this very difficult
Face Slapping …………in the right situation ……….just don’t mark me
Fantasy Abandonment .………again it would depend on the situation
Fantasy rape ………… having been raped for real this could spark of some bad menories …….so perhaps not
Fantasy gang rape ……………. on the one hand its only a fantasy and on the other see above
Fear (being scared) .…………what does this involve?
Fisting (anal)  .………… I really don’t think so
Fisting (vaginal) .…………… there is no way this will happen
Flame play …………if you think I’m going to do this then think again
Following orders ………… you think I can’t do this……….I would do it just to prove a point
Foot worship ………… as long as its my foot that’s being worshipped……….in the past I hated to have my feet touched but now I love it
Forced bedwetting ………..are you going to force me to drink then tie me to the bed?
Forced Bi .………… I kind of find this idea hot……….is that crazy?
forced dressing .………… is my body so bad that you prefer me clothed
Forced eating …………who needs to be forced? or are you talking tripe?
Forced homosexuality ……….. isn’t this the same as forced bi? ……….you could never make someone 100% gay if that doesn’t come naturally
Forced heterosexuality ………… again you cannot turn someone 100%
Forced masturbation   ………….. having recently begun to maturbate for Dave I have to agree to this
Forced nudity (private)  ………… forced!!
Forced nudity (around others)  ……………this would be more difficult
Forced Servitude  ………… probably in the short term ie an hour or two but I suspect this means a much longer time span

Forced Straight …………with the number of curves I possess this is not possible
Forced smoking ………..having given up more than 20 yrs ago it would take a lot to make me go back
Forced TV / Gender Change …………. how is this possible?
Full head hoods ……….. nah nobody is going to use one of these on me………..not if they want to experience my mouth

Limited comments A – B

Here are my comments on the list I posted here a couple of weeks ago. I am starting with A – B some of these I have commented on already.

Abrasion ………see previous
Age Play………..it is many years since I did this
Anal Sex ………….oh yes please
Anal Plugs (small) …….not tried yet
Anal Plugs (large) …….not tried yet
Anal Plug (public under clothes).…..not tried yet
Animal Roles …………….. see previous
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) ………… see previous
Aromas ……….. not tried yet
Asphyxiation ………….no way will I try this one I won’t even wear clothes with a high neckline
Auctioned for charity …………I can’t see this happening but you never know
Ball Stretching …………see previous
Bathroom use control ………….    I can understand how this can work for some but with my medical history unadvisable for all concerned.
Beastiality ………….what do you think I am? an animal? no thanks
Beating (soft) ………..can I really ?
Beating (hard)……….. not sure I could hurt anyone that much
Blindfolding ……… not tried it yet but really do want to
Blood Play (Letting of, or playing with actual blood). ……….. not for me this one
Being Serviced (sexual) ……….well of course ……….wouldn’t anyone want to be serviced?
Being bitten.……….keep it light please
Breast/chest bondage ……….don’t know maybe one day
Breath control ………… see previous
Branding  ………. no no no …….did you hear me ………noooooooo
Boot Worship .………….I could handle having my boots worshipped
Bondage (light) ………….. yes please
Bondage (heavy) ………… don’t know maybe one day
Bondage (multi-day) ……………see previous
Bondage (public under clothing) .…………. I can see the possibilities here
Breast whipping …….. again this is a possibility one day but not yet
Brown showers (scat) ………..ewwwwwwwwwww

Explain these

Following my last post Please Explain, Rosie left a very helpful comment suggesting that most of these can be found on

http://www.urbandictionary.com/. So what I thought I would do now is to go through the list picking out the terms that I am not sure about. I shall give my personal thoughts on what my imagination and instincts tell me they would mean then I shall check urban dictionary and see how close or far out I am.

My guess

Abrasion………..now I know that abrasives are a collective term for things like sand/glass paper of varying grits(roughness) so my guess is that in some way sand paper is used on the body.

Animal Roles ………..I am guessing that this involves a sub being made to behave like an animal including eating out of an animal’s feeding bowl.

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)………..I’ve not heard of these but the obvious part is that the arms and or legs are binded but its the sleeves part that means nothing to me. are the arms/legs bound individually or are they bound together?

Ball Stretching………..unless this is being forced to stretch a football(soccer) ball into a rugby ball shape ……….which I very much doubt …………then it must involve stretching the main components of a man’s scrotum………….being female I don’t think this can be don’t to me but it could be an interesting occupation of my time.

Breath control …………..sounds to me like it is a case of controlling when you or your partner breathes……..My Sweetheart did teach me to hold my breath and kiss him passionately for as long as I could during an orgasm……….that was simply amazing.

Bondage (Multi-Day) I can only assume that this refers to a bondage session that lasts several days.

Castration Fantasy……….. is this a woman dreaming of castrating her wayward man or a man dreaming of being castrated?  maybe not.

Catheterization………….surely not…….is there a doctor in the house?

Chauffeuring…………..sounds obvious but is this really a fetish? Maybe it is an innocent name for something more sinister.

Dilation ………………..to me dilation is something that occurs during childbirth or it could be the use of a speculum during an examination …………..am I close?

Electricity ……….shocking idea……….could it be the use of electric probes on the body?

Enemas ( retention/punishment) …………Now I know what an enema is and I also see the benefit if using them for sexual purposes but retention?  is this a clenched buttox moment? Punshment?

Enforced chastity………….is this where I am thrown extremely horny into a room of sexy men but not able to satisfy myself or them or is it a case of being left feeling extremely horny in a room full of men that I wouldn’t touch with a barge pole.

Fear (being scared)…………….being scared of what…………….this could take many forms

Forced TV / Gender Change …………..is this a matter of cross dressing against will or more sinister?

Gates of Hell (male)……………I can’t begin to imagine what this is.

Genital sex………………….have I been getting it wrong all this time but I thought sex was genital!!

Human puppy dog…………………this I would guess is virtually the same as Animal Roles

Mouth bits…………….would this be the wearing of a bit (metal bar across the mouth)like horses do.

Mummification…………….Is this being bound in bandages in the manner of an ancient Mummy or does it involve more?

Pony slave ……………. does this slave behave like a pony? complete with pony butt plug?

Riding the “horse” (crotch tort)………………my first thought was of having to sit astride a modified horse (gymnastics apperatus) but then I figured it was probably soe kind of torture applied to the crotch area.

Saran wrap……………I hadn’t heard the term before but now know it is where the body is wrapped completely (arms pinned to the side) in a kind of cling film. This is something I have thought about …………….I know where I can get this stuff

Sleep sacks………………I really don’t think this refers to sleeping bags as used on camping holidays

Thumb cuffs (metal)………..the mental image this conjures up is wide metal rings slipped over the thumb and tightened.

Urethral Sounds (metal rods)………………….this brings to mind the atomic rods placed in my vagina when undergoing cancer treatment……………very uncomfortable …………….reminded me of having knitting kneedles shoved inside me.

Please explain

Now that my health is beginning to return I thought I would catch up on what I have been missing. When did Riff go private? I have emailed him but no reply yet.

I have also visited Yummy (with more success) where I discovered that she posted a list from an article on fetlife. In a way it is similar to my never  say never and my secret likes lists.  On my fabswingers profile  I have said that I want to push my boundaries. I have been asked a few times what my boundaries are. Now that was a question I wasn’t prepared for so I figured that this might help. I see that Yummy is dealing with the list in batches. Having seen how long the list is I will probably have to do the same.  You are welcome to do the same yourselves either on your own blog or in comments here. Some of these I might need some explanation as I may be unsure what they mean.

Article
In another thread we started talking about limits, well I know for one that its really hard to try and think about what you don’t or wouldn’t like if it hasn’t already happened once. Also do any of us know all the different activities people have Fetish’s for? So here is a starting point for you to think about it. Please read it all the way through, print it off and maybe do a 0-5, 0 – Love it to 5 – Hard Limit, I will F*****G KILL YOU if you even think about it.

If you dont tell someone it is a limit then there is always a potential there that they might do it.
Abrasion ………please explain
Age Play
Anal Sex
Anal Plugs (small)
Anal Plugs (large)
Anal Plug (public under clothes)
Animal Roles …………….. I can guess
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)  ………… not sure
Aromas
Asphyxiation
Auctioned for charity
Ball Stretching …………I assume this is for males
Bathroom use control
Beastiality
Beating (soft)
Beating (hard)
Blindfolding
Blood Play (Letting of, or playing with actual blood)
Being Serviced (sexual)
Being bitten
Breast/chest bondage
Breath control ………… explain please
Branding
Boot Worship .………….I think I can guess
Bondage (light)
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (multi-day) ……………please explain
Bondage (public under clothing)
Breast whipping
Brown showers (scat) ………..eww
Cages (locked inside)
Caning
Castration fantasy .……………….please explain
Catheterization  …………………please explain
Cattle prod (electrical toy)
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chains
Chamber pot use
Chastity belts
Chauffeuring ………………what?
Choking
Chores (domestic service)
Clothespins
Cock rings/straps
Cock worship
Collars (worn in private)
Collars (worn in public)
Competitions (with other subs)
Corsets (wearing casually)
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cutting (Light) Cutting (Deep) Cutting (Hidden Areas) Cutting (Visible Areas)
Diapers (wearing)
Diapers (wetting)
Diapers (soiling)
Dilation …………….please explain
Dildos
Double Penetration
Electricity ……………..please explain
Enemas (for cleansing)
Enemas ( retention/punishment) ………….please explain
Enforced chastity …………….please explain
Erotic Dance (for audience)
Examinations (physical)
Exercise (forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism (strangers)
Eye contact restrictions
Face Slapping
Fantasy Abandonment
Fantasy rape
Fantasy gang rape
Fear (being scared) .…………what does this involve?
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Flame play
Following orders
Foot worship
Forced bedwetting
Forced Bi
forced dressing
Forced eating
Forced homosexuality
Forced heterosexuality
Forced masturbation
Forced nudity (private)
Forced nudity (around others)
Forced Servitude Forced Straight
Forced smoking
Forced TV / Gender Change …………. how is this possible?
Full head hoods
Gags (cloth)
Gags (inflatable)
Gags (phallic)
Gags (rubber)
Gags (tape)
Gas masks
Gates of Hell (male) …………..please explain
Genital sex ………….am I being dense here?
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Golden Showers
Gun play
Hair brush spankings
Hair pulling
Hand Jobs (giving)
Hand Jobs (receiving)
Harems (serving w/other subs)
Harnessing (leather)
Harnessing (rope)
Having food chosen for you
Having clothing chosen for you
(head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Head (rcv fellation/cunnilingus)
High Heel Wearing
High Heel Worship
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)
Hoods
Hot oils (on genitals)
Hot waxing
Housework (doing)
Human puppy dog …………………what?
Humiliation (private)
Humiliation (public)
Hypnotism
Ice cubes
Immobilisation
Infantilism
Initiation rites
Injections
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Interrogations
Kidnapping
Kneeling
Knife play
Leather Clothing
Leather restraints
Lectures for misbehavior
Licking (non-sexual)
Lingerie (wearing)
Manacles and Irons
Manicures (giving)
Massage (giving)
Massage (receiving)
Medical scenes
Modeling for erotic photos
Mouth bits …………………what?
Mummification …………………really?
Name change (for scene) Needle Play
Nipple clamps
Nipple rings (piercing)
Nipple weights
Oral/anal play (rimming)
Over the knee spanking
Orgasm denial
Orgasm control
Outdoor scenes
Pain (severe)
Pain (mild)
Persona training (in scene)
Personal modification (rl)
Phone sex (serving Dom)
Phone sex (serving Dom’s friends)
Phone sex (commercial provider)
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Piercing (permanent)
Plastic surgery
Prison scenes
Prostitution (public pretense)
Prostitution (actual)
Pony slave  ………….please explain
Public exposure
Punishment scene
Pussy/cock whipping
Pussy worship
Riding crops
Riding the “horse” (crotch tort) …………..please explain
Rituals
Religious scenes
Restrictive rules on behavior
Rubber/latex clothing
Rope body harness
Saran wrap ………………..please explain
Scarification
Scratching – getting
Scratching – giving
Sensory deprivation
Serving
Serving as art
Serving as ashtray
Serving as furniture
Serving as a maid
Serving as a toilet (urine)
Serving as a toilet (feces)
Serving as waitress/waiter
Serving orally (sexual)
Serving other Doms (supervised)
Serving other Doms (unsupervised)
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Shaving (body hair)
Shaving (head hair)
Skinny dipping
Sleep deprivation
Sleep sacks ………….please explain
Slutty clothing (private)
Slutty clothing (public)
Spandex clothing
Spanking
Speech restrictions (when/what)
Speculums (anal)
Speculums (vaginal)
Spitting
Spreader bars
Standing in corner
Stocks
Straight jackets
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)
Strapping (full body beating)
Suspension (upright)
Suspension (inverted)
Supplying new partners for Dom
Swallowing feces
Swallowing semen
Swallowing urine
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)
Tampon training (in ass)
Tattooing
Teasing
TENS unit (electrical toy)
Thumb cuffs (metal) …………….please explain
Tickling
Triple Penetration
Urethral Sounds (metal rods) .……………please explain
Uniforms
Including others
Vaginal dildo
Verbal humiliation
Vibrator on genitals
Violet wand (electrical toy)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)
Video (watching others)
Video (recordings of you)
Water torture
Waxing (hair removal)
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Weight gain (forced)
Weight loss (forced)
Whipping
Wooden paddles
Wrestling